I haven't written for a while. Not said anything. Just been here.Here is the operative word. Here, a lot has been transpiring.In the mind, out of the mind, just.....a lot. We are going to adopt a child as we can not have kids ourselves. Never mind the politics surrounding adoption, you should try have a functional relationship before any of that. That right now has turned out to be the hurdle that needs to be overcome.

We saw a social worker today, what I took away from the experience was: So many ppl have thanked me because it brought couples closer. We are working on that.